Thich Nhat Hanh

Dwelling in the present moment,

Sexual expression should not happen without love and

We are very good at preparing to live, but not very good at living.

you should be conscious of what you are reading and watching.

be thoughtful about what you consume

Nothing can survive without food. Everything we consume acts either to heal us or to poison us. We tend to think of nourishment only as what we take in through our mouths, but what we consume with our eyes, our ears, our noses, our tongues, and our bodies is also food. The conversations going on around us, and those we participate in, are also food. Are we consuming and creating the kind of food that is healthy for us and helps us grow?

There are many ways that people can support us and love us without actually saying, “I love you.” You may know people who have never said, “I love you,”

but you know they love you.

We’ve received many positive and negative seeds from our parents and ancestors. They transmitted their habit to us because they didn’t know how to transform it.

Sometimes these habit energies have passed through many generations.

In long-term relationships, as in families, we often get in the habit of thinking that change isn’t possible. We think the other person should change and they won’t, so we give up hope. But we need to stop judging and return to our own internal communication. If we wait for our parents or our partner to change, it may take a very long time. If we wait for the other person to change, we may spend all our time waiting. So it’s better that you change yourself. Don’t try to force the other person to change. Even if it takes a long time, you will feel better when you are master of yourself and you are doing your best.

Both communication and community have the same Latin root, communicare, meaning to impart, share, or make common.